Podcast: Play in new window Download Embed. There are many reasons we crave sexual submission. Being submissive means you get to be taken on a journey by a trusted partner who attends to your desires and needs. Submission is an act of trust. Sexual submission can be both thrilling and scary. But it can also be empowering. Submission is a negative term in our power hungry culture. To be submissive is to be weak. In the world of Kinky Sex, just the opposite is true. Being submissive is an honored role, a respected part of the circuit that kinky sex requires.
10 Steamy Sex Positions That Will Help You Embrace Your Submissive Side
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WHEN I was 14, I sneaked into the empty bedroom of my scholarly older brother to poke around in his bookcase. I was quickly submerged in the submissive: masks, chains, brands, whips, blindfolds, piercings. Even skimming, the book was too scary for me, so I stuck it back in its hidden spot and scampered away. Yet she has written the Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy — bondage-themed romanticas that whipped up a frenzy with the housewives of Long Island and rippled out from there. James started writing the series as Twilight fan fiction under the pen name Snowqueens Icedragon, spinning another strange, obsessive love story in misty Washington state with a pale, virginal year-old brunette student named Anastasia Steele and a breathtakingly handsome, year-old telecommunications mogul named Christian Grey.
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We all recognise the popular image of submissive men who worship women and get off on being dominated. I wrote about it recently and had many positive responses from people saying they totally understood the motives. So why is it that submissive women are often perceived very differently?
Being in charge is a good thing, for the most part. But when it comes to sex, sometimes getting a little submissive can be a fun way to switch up your norm. Just remember: communication is everything. With that, read on for the hottest positions to try right. Go forth and live your best submissive life, my friend! The Spanking is a position similar to doggy style, but with a little bit of an acrobatic twist. Since the partner on the bottom is being held up by the top partner, this position feels super submissive. The bottom partner has to give the top partner complete control and focus instead on staying balanced , and that sense of dependency is so hot. With your hands tied behind your head, anything is possible, as your partner has total dominance over you while you lay on your back. You can use this position to experiment with lots of different types of penetration and oral pleasure—whatever your heart or your dom!
